JRR Tolkien . . provided escape from the mind numbing kult when I was a teen ager, i read the trilogy more than 6 times during HS
My father . . . showed me what I DID NOT want to be when I grew up, a two faced philandering hypocrit witnoid/elder/po/pioneer who instilled in me a feeling of total absolute worthlessness that at 55 I still struggle with every day.
Mrs LoB . . . her unconditional love and support for the last 20 years saved my life and makes me want to be a better man. Yeah I stole that line but there is no better way to say it..